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Teaching Bathing Skills Through Art

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One of the struggles my children have always faced is in mastering multi-step tasks. Taking a bath can be very frustrating for them because of all the steps that must be completed in a particular order. Repeating verbal instructions does not help. They are visual thinkers and learners, which means they must see the action taking place or have a picture to look at as a reference point during the process. After nine years of struggling along with my children to develop independence in the bathroom, I decided to try what has been working in the classroom: a social story.

Social stories are pictures of an action followed by simple written instructions that allow autistic children to learn complex behaviors that typical people take for granted. I created a social story for bathing, put it together in a document with some photos I took in their bathroom, and uploaded the project to a cool website called Sticviews (www.sticviews.com).  In three easy steps, I created a vinyl cling that sticks to the shower wall without glue. It can be removed and replaced repeatedly without damage to the tile or the vinyl cling.

It has made a world of difference in my kids' ability to be independent in the bath tub.

You may order a copy of my own Bathing Sticview in the Gallery here. Or, go to www.stickviews.com and customize one for your little bathers.

Every small step they take today gets them closer to living independently ... some day.

 

Has the Smoke Cleared Yet?

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No, I didn't burn the kitchen down. I am referring to the billowing clouds of furiosity that were the result of my trip to the grocery store on Sunday ... WITH MY CHILDREN!

You will recall I mentioned in my previous post that Steve has a cold. In an effort to be a loving, caring, nurturing wife, I took Ian and Ainsley with me to the store so Steve could rest. Let me just set the record straight now before I forget - When I returned home, the man who could barely open his eyes before I left, was sitting up in bed, eating a sandwich, and watching a football game! It's a freaking miracle!

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Give Me Strength

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When I die and someone is given the tortuous task of carving my gravestone, I don't want to be known to future generations as "The Mother Who Decked a Docent". Instead, I hope people will remember me for the rational things I did to cultivate dignity in autism. Perhaps focusing on positives will help me avoid wanting to kick-box some idiot who is so busy listening to the sound of her own voice that she cannot see the people standing before her.

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What the Obama's Must be Doing at 7:30am

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After scooting our two beautiful children out the door to school this morning, Steve and I sat down to watch the news. The world is rotating around the Obama family today. This is obvious because on all channels except Cartoon Network, the picture is focused on the door to Blair House. As we watched Secret Service agents enter and exit while talking to their wrists, Steve and I figured out verbatim what was being said behind the door.

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Making Progress and Accepting Change

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Ian will be taking his first TAKS test next week. Don't ask me what TAKS means. I have too many acronyms in my head and not enough brain power to remember what they stand for. This one is the state-mandated reading assessment test.

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